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This was one of Ashton Kutcher's entries on Facebook recently.. http://www.higherperspectives.com/deceased-loved-ones-1437230454.html

5 Signs a deceased loved one is nearby.. This sounds like bull shit but the truth is after my dad passed away I felt he was nearby for a while.. And one night I even thought I heard him say my name up in the hallway near my bed room.. It was within a month of his passing away and it was as plain as the weeks before..   Then now with my niece passing away recently there have been little signs here and there.. What is really sad is while I feel she is nearby in death, when she was alive she rarely was down here.. From the time she graduated until her untimely death she was down here maybe an average of maybe five times a year.. And that is giving her two... She was almost never here.. Like when she moved to Tennesee and I thought at the time well.. It's like she is here, we never saw her before her move, and we won't see her now.. And it was well about a year before we did see her, just a few weeks before her grand dad died, and it was just like normal.. Maybe it was a good thing we rarely saw her.. When she came down with her daughters we always marveled at how they were growing so fast.. And that is true, when it was three to four months between visits you can see the growth that way..

What are some of the signs that my niece might be nearby?? Little things.. Going to my bedroom one night I could swear I saw a red light (like a digital clock) from one of the spare bed rooms, I turned back to look and there isn't ANY red light in there.. Then one night the scanner (radio used for monitoring police and fire radio activity) there was something strange happened.. The static on a channel was there.. And that happened with my dad as well.. In this case there was static in a rhythm sound and a very high beeping type of sound, almost music sounding.. I wasn't freaked out by it but I did think of her.. For whatever the reason....

So.. I'm NOT religious at all really.. More spiritual than anything and truth is I do believe in a beyond but not a heaven type of beyond.. More of .. ghost... maybe..  Some sort of other phenomenon beyond the religious BS (Oh she is in a better place) thing.. I do think she is in a better place and she might be wrangling and being amungst us now.. At least for a while..

From the article :

1. You smell them. 

No I never have smelled her.. In fact if you were to hive five  things and one of them had her smell it would be a stab for me to get it right.. So no, I don't smell her.. 

2. They appear in your dreams. 

This is easy.. Very few people who lose a loved one don't ever dream  of them.. In my case within a week I dreampt of her, she was on the front room sofa.. Everyone was crying and talking to her and asking why, and how...  She gave and answer that made everyone cry even harder than they did when she first passed away.. What was that answer?? I have no idea.. 

3. Your items go missing. 

Nothing has gone missing that I know of.. Not now, when she was here when she went to school down here things went missing but.. not now.. not yet anyway.. 

 

4. Unusual thoughts. 

No unusual thoughts.. But the day after her funeral while cleaning her place her mom and sister found something that was very concerning to them.. I will eventually write about that when and if it ever gets cleared up.. 

 

5. Signs at the funeral. 

I've been to funerals where things go awry but hers seemed to go off without a hitch so.. No signs at the funeral.. Although there is a reason I came up with as to why her spirit might not have even been there.. She had troubles getting anywhere on time, even before she had the twins she was late or pushing being on time to the breaking point.. I figure she slept in, her funeral started at ten in the morning and I do believe she was in fact late to her own funeral.. That was my dads line by the way.. When she was here going to school and she would be getting ready to go and dad would drive her the whole block and a half to school he would say that girl will be late to her own funeral..... Someday..

Badge Henry

And then last night happened.. Someone called and I tried to pick up just before the answering machine did as is my way of getting the phone just before the answering machine picks up and say hello, just as the answering machine goes off and runs through it's message of leave a message after the beep.. And the beep sounds and there is this massive amount of feedback sounding stuff.. Was that her messing with the answering machine???  They aren't allowed to communicate from the other side  and yet I wouldn't put it past her to break every rule in the book...